It hasn’t seemed to be much of a summer yet in the Midwest. We have had a lot of rain and not a lot of warm days, but the calendar says July 4th is around the corner. For my family, it will mean back yard grilling and feeding a crowd. Feeding a crowd on a holiday does not have to mean your health goals fall apart. We are a pretty health conscious crowd, so here is what I am thinking as possible menu items for this week:
For an appetizer, try fat-free/low-fat easy bruschetta. My husband just whipped this together last night as part of an easy Sunday night meal using some not too tasty dried out bakery bread. He toasted thin slices of the dry bread, and then ladled his tomato mixture on top. He mixed diced tomatoes, fresh garlic, and balsamic vinegar together (to taste, no oil included). Topped with fresh basil and a pinch of fresh Parmesan cheese, it was wonderful and fat-free with no guilt issues returning for a third serving!
For the entrée, consider the following:
- Jenni-O brand turkey brats-saves you at least 10 grams of fat and 100 calories over the standard counterpart. When we eat brats or serve brats to a crowd, we never eat the standard product and quite frankly, after soaking in beer and onions, one cannot tell the difference.
- Fruit and/or vegetable and meat kebobs will save you calories by cutting down on the amount of meat consumed. The quality of this meal will be improved by substituting the fruit and/or vegetables for the meat which adds healthy anti-oxidants from the fruits and vegetables while cutting down on saturated fat from meat.
- Instead of standard burgers, consider grilling marinated boneless/skinless chicken breasts. Pound the breasts to about a 1/4 inch thickness, marinade in your favorite mixtures, grill up and serve on whole wheat hamburger buns!
For side dishes, consider:
- Strawberry shortcake served with angel food cake, fresh diced berries, and light cool whip or whipped cream
- Or, just indulge in your favorite ice cream at this point since you ate so much healthy food the rest of the day.
For your beverages:
For the beverages, remember they can be loaded with calories from both sugar and alcohol. Consider having your bar and cooler stocked with:
- Diet tonic water and lemonade which will mix well with alcohol for a reduced calorie cocktail
- Diet pop
- Lower alcohol and calorie beer as well!
Happy 4th of July and enjoy the summer!
As I contemplate the upcoming weekend and Mother’s Day, I realize that I know and respect an awful lot of amazing mothers. These mothers are my clients that I have come to know very well over the years, my friends, my relatives, and finally, my children.
These mothers always put mothering at the top of the priority list even as they pull off multi-faceted roles as wedding planners, secretaries, doctors, teachers, nurses, dentists, lawyers, administrators, and so on. The similar theme with these strong women who are amazing moms is their tenacity in nurturing and their instincts for being the driving force and support for their children. It does not matter how old those children are, the “force” is still there. That “force” exhibits itself in various forms for various situations, but it is ever so present.
Remember to appreciate YOU
So to all those amazing mom’s out there, mom’s of little babies and adults already on their own and out of the nest, please take care of yourselves. Remember. YOU are worth your weight (no pun intended) in gold. It’s necessary to replenish yourself to continue giving all that you give to others. Over the decades of counseling clients (as well as being a mother myself), I have realized that we can get “spent” very quickly as we go about our daily tasks of keeping our lives in line with ideals, and juggling all we do in a 24-hour period.
To keep up your pace, remember some guidance of self-care for YOU
- Mange your diet as you would manage your business, your children, and careers! Eating is meant to keep you well, strong, and the best you can be. It needs to be planned out as the rest of your life is planned. The outcome of this planning makes the effort worth it!
- Feed yourself the same quality of diet you want your babies and older children to eat. Kids of all ages have a keen eye on what you are doing, and will learn to imitate your food behaviors and patterns of eating eventually, be it good or bad.
- Take the time to eat; it is the only fuel and nutrients you will take in. Just thinking you should eat, or taking supplements, will not give you the energy to carry on, only good quality food will do so.
- Make sure you take the time to actually enjoy your food. Sit down at the table and teach your toddler that mom needs to enjoy her meal.
- When sharing your meals with your children, enjoy the experience. One day they will cook for you and pick up the dishes without being asked. Remember, you are a role model, and what goes around comes around!
If you are reading this, you are probably a mother or know a wonderful mother. I salute you all and wish you a wonderful day and upcoming week. Happy mother’s day to all those truly remarkable women called “mom”.
Weight loss in December is not usually the objective for my clients. Most of my clients simply hope to hold the line on their weight. The challenges of the holidays are numerous: shopping which leads to more frequent fast grab lunches at the mall, office parties, stress-related eating, and family or friend gatherings during the holidays. Here are 5 tips to help you manage the tipping point on the scale:
- Try to eat a healthy meal before hitting the mall. If your shopping period is an all day affair, then plan your restaurant meal in advance. Use the Internet to preplan your options at your mall restaurant by reviewing the nutrition information online.
- For office parties and gatherings, try to have a healthy snack of fruit or veggies prior to the festivities. If you are feeling a sense of fullness, it will be easier to resist some of those high temptation goodies which are sure to be available. If you are having lunch catered in, see if you can find out the menu so you can preplan how you will handle the meal to meet your health and weight objectives.
- You can help your stress-related eating by simply controlling your eating environment at home. Make sure your kitchen is full of healthy food options which are easy to prepare as opposed to a kitchen full of high temptation baked goods and candy. If you must bake for the holidays, keep those baked treats where you cannot easily get to them. Better yet, store them at skinny friend’s house.
- For gatherings with family and friends, contribute something to a potluck which meets your dietary objectives. Make it something healthy, but something you can enjoy as well. Fresh shrimp, a fruit platter, or crackers with reduced fat cheese spreads are good options.
- Watch those alcohol calories!
An ounce of prevention is probably worth much more than a pound of cure. It is much easier to avoid weight gain, than to undo those unwanted December pounds come January.
Wishing my readers a happy and healthy holiday season and 2013.